On the Hard Sayings of Jesus
Sermon for Sunday, August 23, 2009 (Year B, Proper 16)
Jesus said, “Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them”… He said these things while he was teaching in the synagogue at Capernaum. When many of his disciples heard it, they said, “This teaching is difficult; who can accept it?”… Because of this many of his disciples turned back and no longer went about with him.” (John 6:56, 59, 66)
People sometimes talk about certain teachings of Jesus as being “difficult” or “hard.” The ones that come most readily to mind are the teachings about money.
At Luke, chapter 18, for example, we find the story of the Rich Ruler who asks Jesus, “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” Jesus cites the Ten Commandments, and the ruler says, “I have kept all these since my youth.” Then Jesus springs a surprise. “There is still one thing lacking. Sell all that you own and distribute the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; then come, follow me.” (Luke 18:18-22) Hearing this, the ruler is very sad, for he is very rich (Luke 18:23) and what Rabbi Jesus asks is far more than this man expected. This teaching is every bit as hard for us to swallow as it is for the guy in the story. Does our Lord really expect us to sell our homes and furniture and automobiles, give up our jobs, and do his work 24/7? We have responsibilities! People depend on us! And so we resolve this impasse by saying to ourselves, “Oh, Jesus means we should give up everything in a spiritual sense, not a material sense.” But in truth there’s nothing in the text to indicate that Jesus is talking about “spiritual goods.”
There are other hard teachings. In chapter 5 of Matthew Jesus holds forth on several issues. For example, “You have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, ‘You shall not murder’… But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will be liable to judgment….” (Matt. 5:21-22) It’s a blanket statement; Jesus cites no unless-your-anger-is justified exception. Yet who among us never feels anger? And Jesus himself was sometimes angry, as when he cleansed the temple.
Then a few verses later Jesus holds forth on divorce. “It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that anyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of unchastity, causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Matt. 5:31-32) Again, this is a blanket statement. Jesus seems to make no exception for unfaithfulness on the part of the husband, for abuse, for neglect of one’s children, or for any other defect in the marital relationship. This teaching is so difficult, in fact, that it is rarely included in the Sunday lectionaries. One reason is that what we have in Matthew can hardly be called a complete teaching on divorce and remarriage. I, along with most Episcopal clergy, do not believe that Jesus would insist that one should stay in an abusive marriage, placing one’s well-being, and the well-being of one’s children, at risk. Over many years the Church has come to recognize that divorce is sometimes the only responsible solution for a deeply defective relationship.
Clergy in denominations which interpret scripture literally — clergy who may drive around in cars sporting bumper stickers declaring “God said it, that settles it, I believe it” — rarely preach on this passage either, or on Luke 16:18, where Jesus clearly says that remarriage is adultery, because they, too, recognize that taking the Bible literally can sometimes yield an unjust result.
However, the fact that Jesus’ teachings are sometimes difficult does not excuse us from the task of wrestling with those teachings. By struggling with these hard sayings, we may see how we are called to do things we would rather not do if left to our own devices, and how we are called to become people we are not naturally inclined to be. As Joshua instructed the tribes of Israel, we must choose whom we will serve. That choosing can be hard, but it is also necessary. The God who refuses to leave us be demands it.
A personal memory may serve to illustrate this persistent demand for change, for transformation in our relationship to God and to each other. Back about 1954 my family took the train from Philadelphia to central Florida to spend Christmas with my grandparents. Somewhere along the way, in Georgia as I recall, my father took me to the vestibule of our car so we could watch as the train pull into a small southern town. We stopped just opposite the white clapboard train station, and I watched in fascination as the train crew scurried around and passengers detrained and boarded. Then, looking at the station, I noticed three doors, each with a sign. One sign read, “Men.” The second, “Women.” The third, “Colored.” I knew about men’s and women’s restrooms, but this third door mystified me, so I asked my father what the sign meant. He was silent for a time, and then, with obvious difficulty, he explained that in the South, white men and white women had their own restrooms, while black men and women had to use the same toilet. That marked my first awareness of the practice of racial segregation.
In 1982, nearly 30 years later, I visited the Smithsonian Institution in Washington, D.C. As I walked through an exhibit on race relations in the U.S., there, hanging on a wall along with other segregation era bric-a-brac, was a bathroom door, its white paint faded, and its sign reading, “Colored.” I was pleased to see it there in “The Nation’s Attic.” It is a vivid reminder that we are sometimes called to do things we don’t wish to do, and to become people we are not naturally inclined to be.
The difficult teaching featured in today’s gospel is about bread and wine. Jesus’ says, “Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them. Just as the living Father sent me, and I live because of the Father, so whoever eats me will live because of me… the one who eats this bread will live forever.” (John 6:56-58) Now, eating and drinking Jesus was not a concept I grew up with in the Presbyterian and Congregational churches. In fact, I didn’t really encounter this idea until I attended my first Episcopal eucharist at All Saints, East Lansing in 1975. Just before communion I said the Prayer of Humble Access, which is based on this same passage of scripture: “Grant us therefore, gracious Lord, so to eat the flesh of thy dear Son Jesus Christ, and to drink his blood, that we evermore dwell in him, and he in us.” (BCP p. 337) I was taken aback. Eat flesh? Drink blood? Oh, my.
In the earliest years of the Church, when Christians met in secret — often before dawn or after sundown on Sunday, since Sunday was a work day — rumors spread among the pagans that their Christian neighbors were engaging in horrific worship practices, such as killing babies and practicing cannibalism. These rumors triggered early, sporadic persecution by those who feared that the gods would be offended by these outlandish followers of Jesus. It would take the legalization of Christianity by the Emperor Constantine, and widespread conversion of pagans, to put these nasty rumors to rest.
In any case, it’s not hard to see why so many of our Lord’s disciples took offense at his teaching about eating his body and drinking his blood. Remember, this was well before that Last Supper in the upper room, before Jesus’ death and resurrection, and before the Church began its weekly offering of Holy Communion in remembrance of our risen Lord. No one was holding inquirer’s classes to explain to newcomers that this weekly feast is a spiritual meal by which Christ makes himself present to us in an especially potent way. No one was writing engaging little pamphlets to explain how this sacred meal nourishes us for the life of faith.
And, for that matter, no one was making it clear that every teaching of Jesus can be a hard saying when we try to live it out. Flip open the gospels and take your pick: “Love your neighbor”… “Do unto others”… “Feed my sheep”… “Render unto Caesar”… “Forgive us our sins”… “Make disciples of all nations.” They are all difficult! Every last one of them!
As Joshua said, we are called to choose whom we shall serve. Sometimes those choices take us places we would not otherwise go, and demand that we become people we are not naturally inclined to be. Having heard what he has to say, Jesus asks us, as he asked the twelve, “Do you also wish to go away?” In other words, are the problems too complicated, the challenges too great, the cost too high?
If you are not sure, remember Paul’s counsel to the Corinthians: “No testing has overtaken you that is not common to everyone. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your strength….” (1 Cor. 10:13) Amen.
— The Rev. John E. Laycock, Interim Pastor
Readings for Year B, Proper 16: Lesson — Joshua 24:1-2a, 14-18 | Gradual — Psalm 34:15-22 | Epistle — Ephesians 6:10-20 | Gospel — John 6:56-69
Collect for Proper 16:
Grant, O merciful God, that your Church, being gathered together in unity by your Holy Spirit, may show forth your power among all peoples, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.